No two moms can raise their children the same way, and it is good to understand that no ones way is bad. Mom’s should stop getting stressed when they see how other mothers raise their kids and begin looking at what they can do.
It is good to understand and accept that a mom is also a sister, human, friend, woman as well as a mother and embrace those. You cannot share what you do not have it is therefore good to have acceptance and self-love first before you can pass them to them. Be happy with who you are.
Have affirmations on slips of paper. Just write down what makes you a unique mom and makes you stand out from the rest of the crowd. Take those qualities and make an affirmation out of it, so if you think that “understanding” is a quality write “I am understanding,” and tape it to the mirror, carry it in your pocket, post it on the fridge and every time you see it, say it to yourself, close your eyes and really think that statement. The key to you being the extraordinary mom you already are is that you have to believe it about yourself. To gro this confidence, the affirmations shall come in handy.
The other tip is to make sure that you celebrate each milestone that your baby takes. There is always something magical with noticing as your child grows and experiencing every moment that comes with it, savor each moment.
It is good to keep a journal of all the special moments your baby has each day and strive to learning new experience each day as the baby grows. Perhaps one days you’ll write about how delighted your baby was with a new food they ate, and perhaps another day you’ll reflect on how much patience you felt you showed during a tough moment.
A mother should be able to pamper themselves regularly. Most of the time, mom’s always do things for other people before considering themselves, it may be good to do something for yourself. Most of us lack this quality to some extend.
Sometimes, many of us feel guilty of spending money on ourselves instead of on children. It is good to keep in mind that nothing can go by just giving yourself thirty minutes to yourself. It is a good idea to just go on tanning, get a lotion or even go for a facial. No one can really take care of other people instead of taking care of themselves.
when stuck, it may be good to ask for help. We all think that asking for help is admitting weakness. It is good to understand that asking for help shows strength. You need help everyone once in a while so ask for it. Admit that you are just normal individual.